Friends, or beyond than that

You are my friend.

More often than not, I start a friendship without knowing that person well enough at the first place. Well, it might sound confusing, but funny enough, I think most of my friends did the same thing as well.

It doesn't mean I literally "choose" friends based on first impression. I do have many friends whom gave me a nasty impression on fist sight, but later on amazed me with their inner beauty and amiable characteristics.

Humans are born to own the ability of making friends. Even the stupiest champ on earth makes friends. The question to ponder here will be the ability of one to distinguish between friends, and something beyond that. I don't mean buddies or close friends, yet I'm referring to stir of relationship.

Yes. When a guy tags along well with a girl, rumour spread, well maybe not in other countries but in M'sia at particular, yes, sadly. The reason behind it will most probably be that most of us do not have the ability to distinguish our feelings for mere friendship and relationship, thus this further leads to a naive thinking that " Hey, there's no such thing as best opposite sex friend on earth, there must be a crush between both."

I was left voxed most of the time when I heard this.

Friends to me are people whom you can laugh or *erhem* bitch at times with. They are the ones who will lift up a finger and help whenever you are in trouble. And most vital of all, to cheer you up when you are down while willing to share your joy when you're happy.

Stemming from that, true+best female friends do exist, maybe not for everyone, but at least it does in my world. When they are the ones who are more empathy and caring then some of the guys, for sure getting along better with that particular girl will be more possible.

At the end of the day, no matter it's the girl who gave the box of chocolates; the one who left for her studies; the one who wrote a letter to me; the one who is always generous enough to me; the one who cooked for me; or the one who cried for me, they are after all, clearly distinguished within me, for their status.

Friends whom I revered? Or beyond that? I know them all, and I just know what's right to be done and what's not.

At this point of reading, if you still don't get it, I'm afriad you are one of the population where you just can't take a relationship beyond friendship, in other words, you don't really have a best friend whom is of the opposite sex

Back to the UPDATES OF LIFE

Recently the IELTS results was just released. Due to the bloody writing, I have a band 8. I gave up trying anymore because seriously, there are just so many preperations to be made before an English test. And it's not cheap after all.

It has been hot and scorching these few days, if I were to be called a male mermaid, then I would be IKAN MASIN for the past few days already. Just continue to pray that my buddies will sing more so that it will rain more... Haha

You know the reason for global warming? Because I'm just too hot! Haha... Funny yea Kenny.

Exams coming up in a week! That's the final battle arena (pre-U) so I'm gonna gear up and put all my endeavours into it. By the Grace of God I shall survive (why did I sound so "marking scheme").

Updates, finally. Cheers!